Tommy Dorfman has opened up about an uncomfortable experience she says she endured during a recent flight, sharing screenshots of alleged text messages sent by a fellow passenger seated next to her.
In a carousel post on social media, Dorfman included a photo of the man alongside a zoomed-in image of one of his messages, adding the pointed caption, “Someone get your grandpa.” Another screenshot appeared to show the passenger texting someone named Samantha, complaining about sitting next to her and using insulting language.
But the exchange didn’t go unchallenged. Samantha, the recipient of the message, responded with a reminder to be kind, noting that many LGBTQ+ individuals face difficult realities and deserve respect. Dorfman later expressed appreciation for the response, writing affectionately over the image, “Wait Samantha ily girl.”
In another moment shared by the actress, a contact named Dave clapped back at the passenger’s comment about hoping to sit next to “a hot babe,” replying, “You got one! A brand new one.” Dorfman applauded the remark in her caption, clearly grateful for the unexpected support.
Beyond the screenshots, Dorfman reflected on the broader implications of the incident, noting that expressing her identity publicly has come with personal costs. She acknowledged both the internal and external challenges she faces, particularly in the United States, while also recognizing her privilege.
“I am lucky to have the life I have,” she wrote, adding that even the ability to travel freely and speak out about experiences like this is something she doesn’t take for granted.
The post has since sparked conversations online about respect, empathy, and the everyday experiences many LGBTQ+ individuals continue to navigate.#newsafro_
