The nickname “Duchess Difficult” has been used by some US staff to describe Meghan Markle, allegedly due to reports of her throwing “tantrums” and causing emotional distress among staff. Sources claim Meghan’s behavior has led to significant tension, with her interactions reportedly making “grown men cry.”
In contrast, Prince Harry is said to be increasingly isolated, relying heavily on his bodyguard, David Langdown, who has been a close confidant and security detail for years. This dynamic highlights the couple’s challenging adjustment to life in the US and their reliance on familiar figures amid growing personal and public pressures.
According to a recent report by the Hollywood Reporter, Meghan Markle has earned the nickname “Duchess Difficult” among her staff due to her reportedly challenging behavior. Sources have alleged that Meghan “belittles people” and “terrifies” her staff, refusing to take advice and making frequent changes in decisions.
The report also suggests that both Meghan and Prince Harry are considered “poor decision-makers” who frequently alter their plans. While Harry is described as “very, very charming,” he is also labeled as “very much an enabler,” implying that he supports or overlooks Meghan’s difficult behavior.
The Hollywood Reporter has detailed allegations against Meghan Markle, describing her as “absolutely relentless” and likening her behavior to that of a “dictator in high heels.” The report claims that Meghan’s demanding nature has led her to “fume and bark orders,” and that she has reportedly “reduced grown men to tears.”
These new claims come as Prince Harry approaches his 40th birthday. Separate sources indicate that Harry is feeling increasingly isolated in the US, with his security guard David Langdown being one of his closest confidants.
The Sussexes have developed a reputation for high staff turnover, having lost at least 18 employees since their 2018 marriage. Among those who left after their 2020 move to California are global press secretary Toya Holness and Meghan’s private secretary Samantha Cohen.
A spokesperson for the couple declined to comment on these reports.
As Harry approaches his 40th birthday, he has expressed enthusiasm for the new decade. He plans to celebrate privately with Meghan and their children, Archie and Lilibet, and is reportedly planning a weekend getaway with close friends. In his statement, Harry praised his children for their impact on his focus and work, and reaffirmed his commitment to making a positive difference in the world.
As Prince Harry approaches his 40th birthday, Buckingham Palace and Kensington Palace have yet to announce any plans to mark the occasion. The relationship between Harry and the rest of the royal family has continued to strain since his and Meghan’s departure for the US in 2020, exacerbated by Harry’s memoir, Spare, which included serious allegations against his brother, Prince William.
The latest point of contention arose on Monday, when a Netflix teaser for a Sussexes’ documentary, Polo, was released shortly after the Princess of Wales shared a video celebrating the end of her chemotherapy treatment.
