My partner has always had long, blonde hair, which I found incredibly attractive. However, she recently came home with a boyish pixie cut dyed brown, which gives her a very different look. Additionally, she has been working out intensely, resulting in significant changes to her body.
I’m struggling with these changes and finding myself less attracted to her, which is really bothering me. I want to discuss my feelings with her, but I’m concerned about coming across as insensitive or sexist.